The greatest thing

is to Serve

sacrifice

give

patiently listen

patiently teach

pray

notice

offer a presence

that allows her to weep

then pray again

give again

listen again

"The rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them...
It shall not be so among you.
But whoever would be great among you
must be your servant,
and whoever would be first among you
must be your slave, 
even as the Son of Man
came not to be served
but to serve, 
and to give His life
as a ransom for many."
Mt. 20:25-29